Worrying is as good as trying to resolve an equation by chewing bubble gum.

Today, i re-open for the first time this blog in many years, and i found amazing the writing i could share some years ago, and which definitely, was by that moment the think that give me peace of mind and understanding to the situations that life brings you. I want to write again about something that everyone experience in life.

I saw a video more than 10 years ago called SUNSCREEN, which i recommend you strongly, but from that amazing video i still remember this frase which is the title of this blog "worrying is as good as trying to resolve an equation by chewing bubble gum" and i think is totally true by the short experience that life has granted me.

When you are finishing your childhood, and start to discover the world with his ups and downs in your life about any aspect that you are going through in a particular moment, you start to "Worry", and i don't know exactly were this come from or if it is a society pattern to try to get you to some place, but you worry about, friends, family, personality, money, job, travel, life, and almost everything that is part of our adventure in this amazing race call life. 

By the time you are living your life you are a sack of "worry human", and i think today i definitely want to say to someone who finds this blog in the web, DONT WORRY too much. at the end we all are going to end death! aren't we?

Don't get me wrong on what i want to transmit on this, of course you should try to do your best to get well with you friends, family, to do good at school or job to get better posibilites to have a better future, but i just want you to do all this with out the "WORRY" cause "worrying is as good as trying to resolve an equation by chewing bubble gum" it won't do anything.

Worrying won't help you at all to do any good or any better, and at the end you health will be pretty affected by it, instead everyday just try to do your best, trust in whatever you trust if its GOD is great, trust that the whole world wants the best for you even if at the time you don't understand why are you in pain or confuse, promise you some time ahead you will look back and said "now i finally understand"

Is this hard to master? totally, if you succeed in this tell me how? but try to work on yourself, every time your mind takes you to worry for something, understand that is your mind which YOU control trying to get you out of your peace of mind, said to yourself "here i go again" and just try to keep perspective and reality of what is actually happening, 99% of the time our mind exaggerate everything to 200% and if we don't control that, we may believe that actually would happened. 

Life is as driving a car in the middle on the night, you can only see the next 5 or 7 meters by the light of the car lights, but you don't know what will come ahead, at the end you just trust you will get in time and safe at your final destination. And also anyone can drive a car by looking at the rear view mirror.

To put a perfect example of that in my own experience, when i was a little younger i worry a lot about  marry "the correct girl", everyone said this is one of the most important decisions in life right? and also is being said is like 60% or 70% of your happiness i heard? so imagine all the "worry" i was about taking this decision right? and to find the "right person" to be part of this adventure of life, util someday i just start praying to GOD and say please GOD im pretty sure when the time comes, you will let me know some how which girl is meant for me, and that was it, i put all the worry aside for good, i keep with my life and enjoying everything and everyday that comes with out thinking about this anymore.

Some day i meet this girl "Ana" which the first date we had she told me in specific words "i don't want to have a boyfriend" i was like "wow but ok" but i really like her so i keep her like a close friend, we went to movies, dinner, coffee etc you name it, just as good friends, leaving life unfold what it has for us, to make a long story short she is my wife today and i am absolute sure i marry the "right girl" the love of my life and my best friend.

whatever you are worrying for it now, just let it go, life will unfold the answer at the right time, it its a relation, job, family, friends, death, trip, or anything you are living, just enjoy your life, remember that the race is long and at the end it is only with ourselves. and it is a pretty short race so you better enjoy it while it last.